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The Price of Children

Here is something absolutely positive for a change.  We've repeatedly seen the breakdown of the cost of raising a child, but this is the first time I have seen the rewards listed this way.  It's nice!


The government  recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140.00  for a middle income family.

Talk about price shock!  And that doesn't even touch college tuition.

But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down.

It translates into:  

* $8,896.66 a year,
* $741.38 a month,
* $171..08 a week.
* A mere $24.24 a day!
* Just over a dollar an hour.

Still, you might think the best financial advice is
don't have children if you want to be "rich."
  Actually, it is just the opposite.

What do you get for your $160,140.00?

* Naming rights. First, middle, and last!
* Glimpses of God every day.
* Giggles under the covers every night.
* More love than your heart can hold.
* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
* A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or
chocolate.
* A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites.
* Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what
the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.


For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up.  

You get to:
* finger-paint,
* carve pumpkins,
* play hide-and-seek,
* catch lightning bugs,
* never stop believing in Santa Claus.

You have an excuse to:

* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,
* watch Saturday morning cartoons,
* go to Disney movies, and
* wish on stars..

You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under
refrigerator magnets  and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, handprints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.

For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. 

You get to be a hero just for:
* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,
* taking the training wheels off a bike,
* removing a splinter,
* filling a wading pool,
* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and

* coaching a baseball team that never wins but always  gets treated to ice cream regardless. 

You get a front row seat in history to witness the:

 * First step,
* First word,
* First bra,
* First date,
* First time behind the wheel.

You get to be immortal.  You get another branch added to
your family tree, and, if you're lucky, a long list of  limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great-
grandchildren.   You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match..  

In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God.

You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.

That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!  

Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren &
great-grandchildren!!!!!!!   It's the best investment you'll ever make!!!!!!!!

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Comments:

Nienn...
Sep. 8, 2010 at 10:44 AM

Thanks for making me cry!! My husband and I were justy talking about money last night and  ofcourse we all know those conversations arent the happeist but this just made my day!!!!!

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mylif...
Sep. 8, 2010 at 11:11 AM

This just made me cry!

Children cost so much (and I've probably spent more than the "average" already!) but they have changed my entire life. I love my kids beyond comprehension. Thanks-this was much needed today. :)

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kaitl...
Sep. 8, 2010 at 11:39 AM

Awesome!

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LisaLulu
Sep. 8, 2010 at 11:52 AM

Lovely, thank you.  And you get to influence thoughts and ideas...ahh, the power to shape a little mind.  My boys are quite outspoken about how gross smoking is, how irresponsible it is to litter, and how important it is to use your manners....to anyone who doesn't seem to already know.  It's my little way of making the world a better place...

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A.Perry
Sep. 8, 2010 at 1:43 PM

I loved this so much, that I posted it to my facebook! Thanks for sharing this!you rock

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butte...
Sep. 8, 2010 at 7:03 PM

It is true but the joy my five wonderful angels have bought me is endless and some heartache to come I know.

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flea575
Sep. 8, 2010 at 11:04 PM

Outstanding Thanks for this very insightful version

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cjsix
Sep. 9, 2010 at 9:58 AM

Thank you for this..you made me smile and cry at the same time....

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searo...
Sep. 9, 2010 at 11:23 AM

Thank you for the perspective!

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