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confused
- Sep 8, 2010 at 11:17 PM
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I am lost in what to do. My soon to be ex husband is making it harder for me to trust him. When we first split up he told me that he would never try and take the kids away from me. then I met tim and we moved out of the city we were living in because of housing reasons. my soon to be ex didnt like that at all. Now that the divorce papers are signed he is trying to change everything. He is trying to fight for full custody of the kids and even if I was to move back to that town he would still want custody of the kids. I will Die without my kids. They are my life. I already lost one to health reasons but I cant lose these two angels. My soon to be ex has already tried to keep them away from me once. I am not letting him have them alone. I really need so advice
Confused mother of 2 and one angel
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I mean- if it's a NEW guy, and not someone you know very well. Not saying you can't ever move on, but you should know him WELL before you have him living with you and your kids. You are supposed to protect them,and only lord knows what he might do to them when you're not aware.
He can't take your kids just because of you moving in with your boyfriend.....or because you moved out of the town that he "wants" you to live in. Fight him in court, find a good lawyer. There's not a judge out there that will give him custody just because of those 2 reasons. He needs to prove that you're an unfit mother to get custody.
Good luck :)
yeah my ex is like that to. and at the time i had paid a lawyer 2500$ to go to court and she failed to tell me of a court date; therefor my ex got what he asked for. Its been 6 months and because of my financial situation Im STILL fighting. Get a GOOD LAWYER
Your husband can not just take your kids away- There has to be a Extremely good reason to do that but, a judge is probably going to look down on you some for Moving Away with a New Boyfriend before they had time to adjust to you & your husband separating- You really need to get a lawyer that only deals with Divorce/Custody- They will know how to help you deal with this- i would be on my p&q's b/c your husband could have a PI watching everything that is going on in your New Life- Wishing you Lots of Luck!
ME and MY SOON to be ex have been seperated for almost 3 years now. me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year. my boyfriend does more for my kids then my soon to be ex husband ever did. my youngest son called him daddy all on his own.
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