So stupid

[Ohiomomto2]

It cracks me up how one post you write about a subject, everyone is behind you 100% and then you make another one, about the same thing, and all the sudden, you're a stalker, and it's illegal, and my SO is a horrible father, blah blah blah.  Get on the bitchy bandwagon folks!  Yes, I copied ONE picture from a FB page of my SO's son whom he hasn't seen in 9 years because we can't find her.  Why?  Because she moved and seems to have no telephone, no way to find her online and Child Support does not have to give you her address...we've tried.  He contacted a lawyer a few years ago, who told him that she was in contempt of court, but that it was going to take $600 just to file the charges...We don't have $600.  He pays Child Support, and there IS a visitation order, however, how do you visit with a child that you can't find?  Have no telephone number for?  Do you magically teleport yourself to him?  Do you pray for God to show you where he is? 

I'm sorry that I thought that finding this picture and copying it to my desktop so that he could see it.  I'm sorry that I'm trying to help my SO see pictures of his son that his ex refuses to send.  I've contacted her through Myspace once, she deleted it, but I suppose maybe he should contact her through Facebook so that she can delete those too? 

He's not abusive, never had been.  We've been together for 9 years, and he's NEVER touched me, so those of you who said that there must be SOME REASON that she's keeping him from him *Implying that he did something* are way off base.  This woman is psycho, and I fully believe that she married him, got pregnant, and kicked him out because she WANTED too.  Her whole family seems to have a sense of entitlement.  So, for those of you who seem to think that I'm a horrible person, a stalker, or wtfever you seem to think I am, that's fine, keep thinking it.  And for those of you who stand behind me, and know that I'm doing something to make my SO happy, thank you. 

I'm done responding to my posts, so if you have a question, please post it here or in my messages... 

[kkbird]

Oct. 22, 2010 at 6:29 PM

I wouldn't say thats a stalker, he has a right to see his child until the courts say otherwise. Just cause we as parents my dislike or strong word hate the other doesn't mean we have the right to damage our children for our own selfishiness to try and HURT THE OTHER PERSON.