Young Black mother & friend..Dies tragically!

[Jeana28]

I was pregnant at the same time as she was. Kim. She had triplet girls, I only had one to carry.  We always had to pee, we always drove slower then the guys, & didn't care, we had our one older child each with us. Her son Kv. My daughter Kiana.  Our bellies bulged & swelled and she had her girls closer to my due date & vice versa.  We had baby showers & bought cute Baby Phat outfits, I always got a different version of the outfit so they weren't the exact same.  She lived less then 10 min away, now she's buried 5 min away.  I take the shortcut around the cemetary always when there is heavy traffic.  I told her Fiance, who's now a single father of 4 after being 2gther since middle school, I would stop by more often now, 2 bad I had 2 tell him at her funeral.  She had a heart attack, high blood pressure, cholesterol, over weight, they might hv all been contributing factors..Way 2 soon, Kim, I didn't get 2 know u as deep as I could've, but I will get 2 know ur daughters, I promise.  I looked up 2 u in awe as u fed them on schedules, kept nap time routines & still had ur hair did! lol...u have taught me a lot in this past week..To hold my daughter a lil longer at night, not 2 get upset at the lil things they do, but take joy in them!  I have a new appreciation for my children becuz of this tragedy, is that selfish?...You gave me the umpf I needed 2 step it up!  I think u'd b Proud.

[shell81]

Oct. 26, 2010 at 2:43 AM

HUGS Sorry for your loss. How sad:(

I have to ask why does your post say -

Young Black mother & friend..Dies tragically!

And not just Young mother & friend... Dies Tragically!

It don't matter the race a friend and mother died:(