I've only been on this website for a day and I'm already annoyed.

No offense to the mothers that fall into this category, but this feels like MySpace for mommies... maybe I should have expected that?

Is it so wrong to be a 20-something who is happily married, owns a home and loves staying at home to take care of my little girl and husband?? It just feels like all the moms my age are dealing with boyfriend drama, custody battles or being a single parent but all the moms in similar social/economic situations are 10-15 years older than me!!

I joined this site to try and find someone like me... but I feel like it's making me realize how truly unique my situation is. I'm so very blessed and I know it, but I'd really like to meet some local moms like me so I don't go stir crazy with the kiddos!

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 9:31 PM Hello, I am a married, young sahm ..And Im not dealing, with that kind of drama, I live in Tx if you want to chat FR me Krista.

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 9:32 PM

There are lots of happy moms on this site, but it is true there are a lot with "issues" too. You just need to take some time and surf around, feel out some of the different groups and find the ones that work for you.  I've been on it about 2 years now and have lots of good friends. Since I've been battling breast cancer I found a great group for that. 

 Don't be so fast to judge, not everyone has a fairy tale lifestyle....but they might still be a great person!

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 9:42 PM

Thanks for the encouragement, mommerbean. I'll try harder to find some folks that I can identify with :)

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 9:50 PM

Let's try to be a little bit more tolerant and no need to brag we believe you.  Welcome aboard and I hope to read more from you soon.  :)

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 10:02 PM

Sorry, not trying to brag!! It's just frustrating being in "limbo" and wish I had more folks to relate to and chat with who are in similar situations so we understand each other a little better. Didn't mean to come off like that :(

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Nov. 3, 2010 at 10:20 PM


  I can assure you that CM is Nothing like My Space- i don't think it is just You in a Unique Situation; i think all of us that come here are Unique in our own Little Way- The purpose of the site is to Meet New Mommy's from all walks of life, Help each other out when there doesn't seem to be a Light at the end of the tunnel, To Celebrate with when something Great has happened-ect...... you get the picture- i have been here for quite awhile & i haven't found a Mom yet that doesn't have some kind of interesting story to tell- Give it a chance; i promise you will come to find out this is a Awesome Group of Mom's:)

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