I am so frustrated and I really shouldn't be. I have been wanting a baby for coming up on 6 months and all I can do is sit back and watch all my friends get pregnant and have babies.

In my circle, of people I interact with on an almost daily basis, I know 23 women who are pregnant or have given birth in the last month and a half.

I really am just wishing it were my turn already. I am so sick of sitting back and watching everyone else's dreams come true.

I really want a large family, but I also want to be a young parent. I want to play! I want to be a soccer mom! I am so ready for it to be my turn to become a mommy!


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canta...
Nov. 4, 2010 at 1:12 AM

Are you having problems getting pregnant or is it a medical issue and you just can't get pregnant. have Patience's and stop worrying about your situation.

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Darli...
Nov. 4, 2010 at 8:46 AM

Take action!  See your doctors for advice.  If you find out it is not a medical issue than sometimes relaxing the body helps.  Maybe try Yoga.  And if it all fails and you can't naturally have a child than look into adoptions.  There are so many beautiful children out there that need homes!  All that love you have to share would be a great gift to a child with out a mother.  HUGS!  I know you feel frustrated and ready for it to be you having a child.  It can be.  You have so many options.  :)

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chest...
Nov. 4, 2010 at 1:11 PM

My husband and I had to wait for 6 years to get pregnant. I had to watch everyone I know get pregnant. I had trouble getting pregnant. I wish I would not have gotten so depressed and impatient. i should enjoyed that time alone with my husband. This time of waiting will past.

Don't waste time with regular ob/gyns. Go straight to a fertility specialist. Make sure you and your husband are on the same page. Fertility treatments are to stressful to go thru without a supportive spouse.

Be honest with your friends. let them know you are happy for them. But due to your own struggle, you may miss showers etc.  One of my friends miscarried right before my baby shower, so she was not emotionally ready to attend. I understood.

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Whitn...
Nov. 10, 2010 at 3:24 PM

simple frown

I'm sorry love, I want it to be your turn too. And i hope it happens quickly for you!

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