well my mom has my kids but at the same time i feel like i am a bad parent cause i dont have them. i dont know how to deal with it. i know that i can get them back but it just seems like i keep on trying and im geting no where. what should i do.

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crone...
Nov. 4, 2010 at 3:03 PM

i think praying to god and going to court for custady of your kids would be a good thing...god helps those who belive..I am sorry you dont have your kids.. good luck on getting them back

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kkbird
Nov. 4, 2010 at 4:15 PM

Hear if you want someone to talk to... I feel your pain. I think we may need to know alittle more than what you wrote so that we can be able to give our opinions and not JUMP THE GUN about an issue we know NOTHING ABOUT .... sorry dear that wasn't directed to you.....  take care.

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tigge...
Nov. 29, 2011 at 10:44 PM

I am so close to geting my kids back and I have worked very hard at. Well I am doing a lot better and I go see my kids as much as I can. Now between working and going to school  I have to make time to vist with my kids.

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fears...
Nov. 30, 2011 at 9:11 AM

my mother has guardianship of my daughter. but she and i have worked out a way for me to live with her so i can learn how to be a good parent.somethings are just instinct. then they are others like discipline that i have to learn how to do. thats y my moms there. when i get overwhelmed or i dont know how to deal with something my daughter did, she'll step in amd help. she'll also give suggestions when i need it. maybe you can talk to your mother. of course kkbird was correct. i don't know anything about your situation.

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tigge...
Nov. 30, 2011 at 1:43 PM

My mom dose the same samething with my kids if they do something and I don't know how to respond to it my mom steps in.  But I don't live with my mom just my kids do so I go and see them when I am not working. My mom has full coustdy of my kids and she has had them for 2 years now and I am working on geting them back. But the thing I find hard is when they ask about their dad and I really cant tell them anything about him or what he is doing now. So my mom will tell them that he is working and that he is very busy. My daughter is at that age where she has to know everything and learn everything.  She knows how to spell so we cant spell words around her any more. My mom has been here for  me for the past 2 years that she has had my kids.

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