ok here i go... my husband has been diagonsed with stage 4 lung cancer.. I dont know what to say to him . and the most thing is what do u tell the kids ? sorry i just need to vent i have no idea what to think but just to stay together for him .. what do u say ? what do u do ?    please pray for my husband he is only 29 .. god please not yet!!!sarcasm

















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Nov. 5, 2010 at 10:39 PM

i don't normally comment on strangers posts, I don't make it an everyday habit,  but your post struck me and I wanted to send you my deepest wishes that all turns out okay, and that you find your strength!

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Nov. 5, 2010 at 11:09 PM

I'll be saying a prayer. Please contact Hospice...they are so very helpful at times like this. They can lead you to counseling, support (for you and the children) and will take care of medical and prescription needs for you.

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Nov. 5, 2010 at 11:16 PM

Praying for your husband you and your family. 

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Nov. 5, 2010 at 11:20 PM

You are in my prayers.We found out when my daddy was stage 4 and I had to stay strong for him..

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Nov. 5, 2010 at 11:29 PM

Omg, I am sorry to hear that, my papa had lung cancer it is very rough, my heart goes out to you.. and your hubby, wow, if I could things for you I woild, In my prayers hun...If you need to talk, FR me...Krista...

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Nov. 5, 2010 at 11:42 PM

I'm sorry to hear that.  You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers.  Hugs & love

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 12:05 AM

a previous poster mentioned hospice, they are a terrific organization. Also may I recommend the caringbridge web site. My cousin has nonhodgkins lymphoma and it has been a blessing for her.

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 1:16 AM

It's kind of tought right now to talk about the "what ifs" but right now may be a good time to get things in order just in case.  It may help ease his mind. He is probably more worried about the people around him in his life right now and it may help to reassure him that you all will be okay and discuss what he wants.  I'm sorry sweetie cause I just don't know what else to say.  Take care and I hope you and your family can find the strength to maintain during this time.

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Nov. 8, 2010 at 10:06 PM

thank u all for the thoughts and prayers we apprecited it

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