Ok. My life sucks and I've come to terms with it.I'm divorced and single.No boyfriend.I work full time.Got 2 kids that drive me insane.Cafemom has become my entertainment.lol How do Find a boyfriend?I've tried online dating sites,but hell all those guys want is a date and booty.WTF!devil

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 1:48 PM

I wouldnt worry about finding a boyfriend.  I dated and dated after my divorce.  When I stopped actively looking....then it happened.  A very simple twist of fate connected us and and we have been together 10 1/2 years and married for over 8 years.  I couldnt be happier and it happened after I had decided NOT to date anymore.  So, concentrate on work, kids that grow up fast and will be out on their own before you know it, and little things you can do for yourself every day.  The time will come when you least expect it...

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 2:09 PM

Are you sure you want to do that?  It seems you're life is just fine without the aggravation of dating! What you need is some more friends, groups, activities, and you "may" meet someone.

 As soon as I gave up on dating to find another man, in waltzed my husband and we have been together for 16 years now.

Dating is like shopping for swimming suits when you're 50 pounds over weight! NOT a nice experience.

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