Last night I had a friend over everything was good for awhile and then she shown me a side of her I have never seen before.  She was saying stuff that scared the crap out of me and I wanted no part of her.  I tried to be nice and tell her to get out of my place before my fiance got home.  She was saying stuff like she was threaten to get people in my house background check, where the heck did that come from.  I have known you for years, my fiance is a security officer to he has to get check before he gets certified.  I have a 4 year old who I was scared for.  She flat out told me that I would not hear from her again after that, I told her good then you can let go of my son then.  If you are not my friend you dont need to be holding my son. I told her to get her stuff and get out and she thought I would going to steal her stuff, that is not what I said.  My fiance called me and heard what was going on in the background so he had to pull over and call the cops.  My fiance got home and the cops were right behind him.  She even said something to the cops about taking a swing at him, the cop said go right on ahead then.  So after a few the cops did take her and then the 3 of us had to calm down because it was too much and I was shaken big time.

It was horrible to go through something like this, I never had to go through that and I hope that I dont have to again.  I know that I dont want my son to have to witness that again either.  Kinda sad that a friendship that we have had for about 7 or even 8 years had to end like that.  I just hope that she moves far away from me and I dont have to watch my back to see if she is out there.

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 2:12 PM

Sounds like she was ON something.  I've seen many otherwise good friends "change" fast if they were using or drinking.  She may regret it later, but I think she's one of those people you or your family don't need in you life.  You'll find a better friend...

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 2:46 PM

Thank you for the comment! You are right she is someone I dont want around especially near my son! I have better friends than that.

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 6:24 PM

It does sound like she was 'on' something or off her rocker! Either way you don't need friends like that!

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 6:58 PM

We are in the process of getting this person Trespassed from our apartment building! Just got done talking to one of the gals who work in the office and now we need to contact the police who was involved last night and took her away.

I am so thankful that we have security in our apartment building as well. 

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