It's been 1 yr since the murder of my 21 yr old daughter on Oct13,2009 by her kids father.Since then found out he had a bond hearing..How can you let a murder out on bond.They had his bond set at 1 million dollors..found out his brother a cop had been tampering with evidence and witnesses.MMMMMMM bad COP..he was arrested and fired for helping his murdering now we go to trial some time after the new year.he writes cause he is thinking about his 2 little girls he wants pitchuers of them..Go to hell you murdering wont ever see my grandaughters.I miss my daughter so freaking much..We was so close.When he killed her he took my breath as well.But now I breath stail air to make sure my grandaughters are loved and taken good care of.And to remember there mommie loved them with every breath in her body...I hate my daughters killer so much I wish he would get the death penalty..I hate his mother for being so stupid and condoning what he did..I hate his brother for bailing him out of jail the first time after assulting my daughter and then killing her after he gets out of jail on bond...I love you Tyesha Aleta McNair..

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 10:50 PM

I know words will not bring her back but I hope and pray he gets the death penalty. No Mother should have to go through this.U are in my prayers


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Nov. 6, 2010 at 10:56 PM

I am sorry for your loss...

We had a horrendous murder here in iowa this past year, the husband who shot his wife who was a veteran, in the head, with their son in the next room who was still a baby. She had a restraining order and everything on him and he still found away and the cops really had no explaination as to how/what happeend for the events of the day. HE EVEN texted a friend of his to tell him by the time he got the text that he would be dead and she would too and he IGNORED IT!!! within two hours, she was gone. Bastards!!! Rot in hell, times like this when I wish Iowa had death penalty...eye for an eye...

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Nov. 6, 2010 at 11:24 PM

I am so sorry for your loss...not how it should be at all. Blessings on you for taking care of the granddaughters and letting them know their Mom from you. I know everything is going to be stirred up for a long time for you. I hope justice is served. Take care of yourself.

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 8:19 AM

I am so so sorry.  I hope they throw the book at him and his brother!

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 11:04 AM

prayinggroup hug

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 12:23 PM

I'm sorry. Tyesha knows how much you miss her and I know she is with you...even when it doesn't feel like she is. I'm sorry she isn't here to raise her little girls and to be a part of your life. I'm sure she is watching and helping though. She should be here...."he" should be gone. "He"....should NEVER have been released the first time and I'm sorry he was and was then able to destroy so many lives. I can't believe he's writing...he's nuts. I think you are right in feeling the way you do...I know I would. You are such a good Mom and Gram...the girls will always know and love their Mom because of you and your love. I'm so glad they have you in their lives! I'll be saying a prayer for Tyesha and you too Mommy. You are going to get through this and you will get a chance to express your thoughts and feelings at trial. I wish I could be there to support you!

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 12:26 PM

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 12:40 PM

 I am so sorry :(

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 12:44 PM


   I remember reading your post when this happened to your Beautiful Daughter- i know  this has been the Toughest year of your life- i hope that you also know how Proud  Tyesha is of you for taking such great care of her two Beautiful Daughters! i know she is Smiling down at all three of you:) i wish that Jerk- Off would get the Death Penalty too! He doesn't deserve to get the chance to take another Breath of Air! You are in my thoughts & prayers-

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