Well, I did talk to my husband about it and he was very supportive at first.  Now he is freaking out a little which is understandable.  I am just lonely in this decision making process.  He is trying but he isn't inside my head either.  I want this to be God's will not mine.  If this is suppose to happen they let it be from HIM not something I want to do.  I'm so torn.  I see both sides of this issue and still want one.  I don't want to talk to anyone but my husband in this matter because I feel I will be looked down upon.  I'm so conflicted.

Thanks for all the advice. I'm taking it all in and weighing my decision.

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Nov. 7, 2010 at 6:43 PM

These things really do just have a way of working themselves out when we leave them in Gods hands like you said. I know not everyone believes the same but I know fro me I wanted a baby and couldnt get pregnant until I prayed and left it to God. I had actually stopped wanting a baby when I found out I was pregnant. GO FIGURE! My kids 2 are 10 years apart and sometimes I still look at our youngest one and wonder what in the world...? lol. She was just so unexpected! It will all work out. 

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Nov. 8, 2010 at 8:30 AM

Thanks I needed to read that this morning.

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