I hate my husbands job! I know he needs to work to make money but, he is a security gaurd. I hate the long hours and waiting to see if he comes home to me. now he wants to be a police officer maybe im just not cut out for this. should i tell him to find something else or just keep my mouth shut and deal with? it i dont know what to do it feels like he comes home eats sleeps then back to work it my sound selfish but i dont care. we have 3 kids what do i do if i get that call that he has been shot or stabbed or worse killed. I cant live without him its just killing me im depressed all the time and we try do have date night but he always gets called back to work.Im lonley and upset.

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Nov. 12, 2010 at 1:19 PM

My husband is a police officer and he does work a lot and it sucks.  If that's what he really wants to do then I wouldn't talk him out of it.  AFter a while you don't think so much about something bad happening to him.  You'll learn to deal with that.  I still think about it from time to time, but what am I going to do about it?  I actually like that my husband is a police officer. You'd be surprised how many women think that's sexy!

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