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Rants & Raves & A Lil B*tching

Hello ... 

Okay, my issue is that my sex drive is starting to go from okay to low to almost nonexistant. I never had a high sex drive, but it was okay. I always have reasons to not want to have sex, and usually they are real ... i'm tired or i'm not in the mood. I haven't been in the mood in awhile. I am only 26, and like I said, I don't expect to have a high sex drive, but something would be nice. I'll have times where I love to play with dh, tease him, etc, but my mood can change automatically, I can be touching him then any desire that I had for sex is gone. 

I am 26, been married for 5 years, we have a 4, 2 and 1 year old. I don't feel any more tired now than I have. I am always a little stressed, but no more than usual. To me, those aspects are still about the same as they have been, so I don't see how that can be the cause of my sex drive disappearing. I am not on any medications, so that isn't the cause. I don't know what it could be. 

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Nov. 16, 2010 at 11:07 AM

I am the same way.  26, 2 kids, been with hubby 9 years.  It's just not something I think about constantly or crave, although sometimes when he is gone a long time it creeps into my mind.  I feel like this is a huge problem in ourt relationship, he has very high sex drive, Im always telling him its not all about sex.  He thinks I am not attracted to him, but thats not true, and its amazing when we do make love.  Hope you find some help, sorry I couldn't provide you with any advice!

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