Nothing amazes me more then bullies in cyberspace.. Every time I hear someone say that they were being bullied on their Facebook or in any other social network, I can't seem to brush off the idea, that bullies are brave behind a PC. They will lash at you at any given moment, telling you all sorts of things to satisfy their ego... an ego that apparently is bitter towards human beings.

I guess people who bully in so many ways on the Internet have something to prove to themselves, not to the world, but to themselves. They are lonely, they don't have real life friends, because no one can stand them. They seem to think they are superior to everyone else, and above anything. But they are not. They are the kind of people who force their opinion on others, as if they spoke the only truth. They are the kind of people who will tell you they are the shiz when in reality they have nothing going for them.

Bullies of every level exist everywhere.. in High School, in college, in social networks such as Facebook, Myspace and even here in CafeMom..... the people they bully will agree that they are losers and keep allowing them to poison them with negative thoughts, those are the one's with a low self esteem, the ones that need to be loved and liked by strangers.. People with real lives will walk away and dispose negative people.

Beating a bully at their own game is risky, because you will have to stoop to their level and you don't want to do that, although it sounds like a good plan, why become the scum of the earth along with them? Walking away sounds like a good plan, but it's showing them that they can't brake you and they can't hurt you the best revenge. You can also sit down and watch them fall on their face, because they usually do. In high school bullies grow up to be losers. Grown up bullies, who are full of themselves, are usually people who are empty, lonely and sad.

I dispose negative people. I don't waste my time on bullies. I have no need for them.

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sweet...
Nov. 16, 2010 at 1:33 PM

bowing down

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pair-...
Nov. 16, 2010 at 1:37 PM

Well said...bump

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M4LG5
Nov. 16, 2010 at 1:50 PM

Thank you!! 

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Veron...
Nov. 16, 2010 at 4:33 PM

Thank you so much!!!!!

I couldn't believe what I saw when I got on Cafemom in some groups....I stayed in the Newcomer's Club just long enough to see what was going on..Hurt at first....I stayed, said what was on my mind (a lot of time I was in the minority)  then one day decided I had made my point and no one was going to change their mind...so I CHOSE to get out....

However in two Hispanic groups (wives of Hispanic men) it was ok until I started speaking up about things that bothered me...like using the "R" word to describe a midwife....In another group I spoke up about a post being made where the poster posted the slimy filthy thing in its entirety....using God's name in vain.....and about psychic-being Christian and trying to warn these girls in their 20s how dangerous it can be.....I was ignored of course and called "drama causing".  I wrote many letters after I was thrown off to the admins...TOTALLY IGNORED....  I NEVER SWEAR and just say what I feel from my viewpoint...I was accused of writing a note to one of the admins saying her alcoholic mother who died not too long ago was going to hell....I found out about this by accident...and to this day there is no explanation nor apology forth coming....I found out recently by how the admin wrote that she is Wiccan.....This now explains why my remarks (religious in nature were not welcome) .....So sad......People not STRONG IN THEMSELVES to be able to handle a different outlook....They must be in TOTAL CONTROL.

BULLYING COMES IN MANY FORMS.....In my case it was being discussed in public in a forum where the admins of these two groups discussed duel membership and I was going to be removed....I saw all this online...(God is good!!!!)  

So I promised them I would be talking about this online, on Cafemom every chance I got....

THE TRUTH MUST BE TOLD....

I have chosen to write and write about the experience so the whole world can see what they did in darkness.   I choose to let God have control of my life....and will continue to proclaim His name......That is where the REAL power is.....:) 

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LoveR...
Nov. 16, 2010 at 5:04 PM

VeronicaTex, I couldn't agree more. There are several groups like that. Nothing is being done. I have chosen to walk away and stay at a safe distance. Not being part of the rot is ok, it's when you let them IN that damage takes place.

I also believe in the Power of God and Prayer. Today I was a witness to it.

Thanks for your comment. God Bless.

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.Holly.
Nov. 17, 2010 at 9:31 AM

Very well said!

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iluvm...
Nov. 17, 2010 at 1:37 PM

thank youYou said it and it's very sad that this is happening even on here.

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mamac...
Nov. 17, 2010 at 3:27 PM

Words are very powerful, especially when typed behind a laptop or screen. In real life, people would never speak to one other that way. I feel sorry for those who need to talk or type down to others. They are losers! When you walk away you are a winner. When you just think wow, what a low class piece of trash and just move on. It is just not worth it anymore to wste your time on scum like that. It is bad enough to waste so much time on the internet but to waste it on harrassment that is when they won, just blow them off. You are the bigger person, above their low class antics. They are just desperate for attention.

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Veron...
Nov. 17, 2010 at 4:51 PM

mamacita...You make a very good point about walking away.....I wish I were wired like that...unfortunately I am not.....Rejection hurts....online or off....I believe it is choosing what to do about it for the circumstance....It WOULD HAVE BEEN A WASTE OF MY TIME to try to buck a public school where I taught for a short while....It was a parent-run school with a principal that for years catered to the kids' parents...who of course financed many things in the school.....Better to move on and keep my mouth shut....

But what happened on hereto me involved a LOT of people......who were my good friends (I thought)....I was uplifing in many areas.....sharing who I was as a wife of a Mexican...but just a lot older.....So to have your name put out in public, then to have everyone decide I had to go....It was BIG......It was like being ganged up on...stabbed in the back....If you've ever had that happen to you....It really cuts to the core....

Through assertive writing, not only to the people involved....but writing about it here on Cafemom in a journal like this has given me a chance to get it out....I don't look at it as sweet revenge, but taking my power and dignity back.....God is in control of my life.....and as a priest I heard put it so well yesterday in daily mass.....".We are to be humble, but not humiliated....".

Since I have written letters and been ignored....I can accept that POWER led women who need to control others and stick together with their pornography, suggesting psychics are the way to go, lewd posts and being led by people who were into drugs and into Wiccan is NOT the place for me....They are and will be the losers.....

God has made something very ugly become a point of growth for me.....In prompting what words I use.....He has helped me regain my self esteem. and dignity.....I now am only in groups where my souls will thrive and I will continue to be at peace......ones that let God IN!!!!!!  That is where I truely belong....

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catho...
Nov. 17, 2010 at 6:51 PM

you rock

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