DID ANYONE EVER FORGIVE THE  SO FOR CHEATING AND U WANNA MOVE ON AND FORGET AND BUT U CANT ITS ALWAYS IN THE BACK OF UR MIND AND EVERYTIME HE DOESNT ANSWER OR DOESNT COME HOME WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO U AUTOMATICALLY THINK NEGATIVE AND ALWAYS FEEL INSECURE AND FEEL LIKE THE TRUST IS GONE? I FEEL LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME BUT I LOVE HIM AND I WANNA TRUST HIM I JUST DONT KNOW HOW AND IM SO INSECURE NOW ALL IM DOING IS PUSHING HIM AWAY HE SAYS HE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND WANTS TO SPLIT UP FOR AWHILE IN FEB GO OUR SEPERATE WAYS TO TRY AND FALL IN LOVE AGAIN AND MAKE SURE EACH OTHER IS WHAT WE WANT BUT IM AFRAID IF I LET HIM GO I WONT GET HIM BACK BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DESRVE MY OWN HAPPINESS WTF AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?????????????

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kkbird
Nov. 16, 2010 at 2:46 PM

OH LITTLE MOMMA,   ( SO SORRY)  YOU know I am here for ya and I luh ya, BUT YA ALSO KNOW I GOTTA SAY IT DOLL.....   REALLLLLLLLYYY.???????

you my girl are so much better than this!!!!!!  The right one will come along, but HE IS NOT IT.

NO MAN / "BOY" ---- would text you, call you, talking down to you (talking Sh*t) then turn around and tell YOU what time to pick hiim up from work.  2) IF he CARED OR LOVED YOU and DD HE would not be going out after work....rolling in at 2am, and "socializing" with other females.  He would RESPECT you, love you, care for ya'll instead of doing what HE wants to do and threatening to "move out" in FEB..... Hell  **** GO NOW BUDDY**** 

He is treating you like poo and DD, coming and going as he would in his mother's home. Do you really want to catch something he brings home.???

I promise you ..... He continues to lower your selfesteem by the things he says and the way he treats you.  Do you want DD to grow up thinking that its ok for women to be "abused" and this is the way to live, NO LOVE, NO COMPASSION,NO PARTNERSHIP, doubting herself, never feeling good enough or pretty enough.    C'mon baby girl...... YOU will find BETTER, LOVE, TRUST, AND I BETTER - STRONGER- SELF WORTH OF YOURSELF..... Love ya doll... **** I just care about you and told you THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU****** I will stand by you, you are a beautiful girl... trust me.

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