busted my ass to make a nice dinner took 1 hr half to 2 hrs to cook, then did my hair and shaved everything and wore shorts to look cute, he says we will have sex and it will be good but do we no, he goes to bed early... wtf am i just not attractive anymore cuz thats how it makes me feel like i even straddled him and tried to start something earlier when he was on computer watching videos about video games coming out and he said stop cuz he wanted to watch the videos...makes me feel fat, and ugly or that i just dont got 'it' anymore he says hes tired, but wasnt earlier so why not earlier when i tried
its crap men are gay i dont fucking get them and it makes me feel like shit, he barely tries to do anything with me anymore makes me feel like i am not attractive to him anymore and he works fulltime and then he goes to gym mon wed fri and well we dont see him much cuz of it and him still trying to hang with his friends i feel like im all alone sometimes like a single parent

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Nov. 18, 2010 at 11:41 PM

Sometimes, I'm your husband in that respect.  My hubby is very active and I just can't keep up.  He is always trying and I have to be in the mood and rested which is rare with 5 kids and especially with the 2 year old on our tails most of the time. I love my husband and I find him very attractive but...   I know there isn't an excuse but it really has nothing to do with being or not being attractive.  For me, there are certain times of the month where I am more likely to be extremely active.  I think guys may have a cycle too.  He could also be having a libido issue which he won't share with you because it's embarrassing and especially for a man because they like to think of themselves as being primitive in that respect. Good luck girlie!

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Nov. 21, 2010 at 5:29 AM

thanks for the advice and hugs girls

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