Yes it is! Over the years of being on Cafemom I have seen this place go from a great site of moms really wanting to get to know other moms, to a bash fest and bully zone...a place for others with emotional low self esteem to come and bash others who they "think" are weaker then them.

I got caught up in the "game" and I said my fair share of words to others until one day I realized how much time I have waisted and how many friends I really made.....a few....but none to really call a real friend unless we were ganging up on others...

After I realized this I was on my way for a change and I be damned if the bully became the bullied...even though at no point in time these ladies pushed me to my breaking point I did feel bad for the things I have said to others throughout the years. Since I did turn over a new leaf I could not go to extremes like I could have...I did say my words and that was that.

A group of ladies who were "bullied" formed a wonderful group called FRIENDS INC. This is a group of true friendship, sisterhood to say the least! We are there for our true members and we stand behind them full force if they encounter a bully or stalker! We been there and we will not tolerate our friends to have to go through it.

If you want a great DRAMA FREE/BULLY FREE group then please feel free to join FRIENDS INC. There is no bashing for opinions, real friends, real ladies looking for actual adult conversation! We have games, daily chit chats, pen pals, swaps, and our Admin team checks in everyday to browse the group!

Since being in this group I have made some special friends and realized out of all the rubbish on cafemom there are treasures to be found!!!

If you have a special friend,
You have the greatest treasure,
For the devotion that she shows
Will give you so much pleasure.

When troubles come your way
She's there to help you through;
She never fails or falters
In all she's asked to do.

When you need encouragement
She's there to cheer you on;
Her faith in you is constant
When other friends have gone.

Of all the precious jewels
The world could ever hold,
To have a friend like you
Is a beauty to behold.

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 10:12 AM

Beautiful post!!!!! 

Bullying online has come to the forefront here on Cafemom.....I am so glad to see the many posts that are coming out about this....It is time we women make a stand about this, uniting against it and helping in our own way to help restore Cafemom to its original intent!!!!


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Nov. 19, 2010 at 10:15 AM

Veronica I could not agree with you more! It needs to be said and spread!!! Cafemom members need to know this is not going to be put up with like before! The more we bind together and support this the stronger we get! Honestly I think every group should be a fun place to join and make friends but most groups has some sort of drama in them, so sadly and proudly we made our group for a zero tolerance for this!!


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Nov. 19, 2010 at 11:57 AM

That was well said. I couldnt agree with you guys more. The bullying has gotten so bad. I have been bullied on here. I was told that I couldnt be friends with some members and all the bull crap. I have also said my share of words. You really fin dout your true friends when it all comes down to it all.
Friends Inc is a great group. We have some wonderful ladies that care about one another.

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 1:10 PM

This group is WONDERFUL.I'm happy to be getting to know all of the great ladies here.Couldn't agree more about the bullying.It makes no sense at all and is rediculous.Everyone should love one another.


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Nov. 19, 2010 at 2:04 PM

I Love this group, and its nice to be able to be in a safe enviroment..Lots of love yall...

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 5:24 PM

Thanks guys for being so supportive!!!!

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 6:07 PM

Came back and voted popular...

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 6:10 PM

Very well said!!!

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Nov. 19, 2010 at 6:25 PM

thanks guys

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