i just got a call today my firend who is disabled is pregnat and asked if i would adopt the baby for her i said sure so lets hope in a few months ill be a mom im not sure how this will work out but i have hope this time

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Nov. 21, 2010 at 1:03 PM

dont you have to sign some kind of  papers? im sure you already know this lol i was just wondering myself...how does a friend adopt another friends baby? i would really like to know

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Nov. 21, 2010 at 1:34 PM Congrats.

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Nov. 21, 2010 at 1:39 PM Congrats.

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Nov. 21, 2010 at 2:39 PM

I agree with the first poster. If the birth mom is serious about you adopting her child do it the right, legal way. I wonder in what way is she disabled. Is she doing this because she fears she has no choice? I hear of many moms who have disabilities but are still very good moms. if this is what she truly wants then I hope the adoption works out but if she has any uncertainity perhaps she should seek counseling to help her make the best decision for her and thechild

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Nov. 22, 2010 at 12:24 AM

i agree with whoever wrote the last post and she has contacted a lawyer we both have and let me explain its not like she cant take care of like a three year old she just cant carry hold or change an infact she has a motion disorder which makes her twich really bad she has no balance and falls alot so she cant handle a tiny one nor is she ready emotionaly she says soo we r signing papers and everything oh and she has no help from the father he is scitofrenic and she told him he didnt take it well and is cry and she need to take care of him as well

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