I dont care if I over-reacted. I dont care if Im being a bitch.

I am pregnant. I have a child inside of me. I have yet to see or meet my child but Im already head over heels. I know I need to give this baby the life it deserves.

My boyfriend decided to go to his friends to get drunk tonight. We fought earlier and his temper issues carried it on all day. I cant have a easily angered person around my child. I dont care if its his child or not. I will not allow it.
Last straw. Broke the camles back.

I can not do this anymore. I put my foot down. I cant be dealing with this bullshit while pregnant.
I have a child to worry about now.

I am so thankful for my family. If I didnt have them, I would have no one.
Wait, I would have my baby.

I feel so heartbroken right now. I just wish for once, things would go the way I want them too.

I dont want to move on. I dont want my child to not have a father.
I feel helpless and that this is my last and only choice.


What would you do?

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 1:51 AM

Hey girl, I went through this with my daughters dad and honestly, there is nothing you can do. If he is not ready to grow up and accept that he now has a responsibility then you cannot force that upon him. He has his priorities mixed up and who knows it will take for him to get them right (if ever). You have to take care of you and your baby. You cannot depend on him. Being a mother means doing what you have to do for you and your child. I see that you are a strong woman and you are not alone. I am sorry you are going through this and I am sorry that he has not come to the realization that this is the time you need him most. But stay strong and remember that god never gives you more than you can handle. hugging

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Nov. 29, 2010 at 1:37 PM

What would I do? I'd get him out of my life. Not my daughter's life, but mine.  My  father died when my mother was pregnant with me. I grew up well and so did my siblings. And, just because your daughter wont be raised with her father, doesn't mean she wont have a father figure, your father,  your future husband. Just concentrate on your daughter and be thankful for family support. Best of luck :)

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