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I just dont understand what goes on in the minds of cafemommers these days. I mean all the stalking and bashing and blah blah blah.....Why can't everyone just chill the f*ck out and get along! I mean is this the way we want our children to act?

I try to be friends with everyone no matter what has been said...I make my own decisions...I am my own person...Why not treat me the same way....

I comment on random journals I try to comment on all recent activity..even people that are not on my friends list....then I comment on a friends *banned one* and my comment gets deleted or I get ignored...

I just dont understand it...why be so close minded..some things I will never understand...

And for all to know if someone is on my friends list just bc they dont like someone on cm does not mean I have to not like them either...like I said I am my own person...like it or leave it I could care less bc if u leave ur not worth my time anyways!

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 10:59 PM

Also I dont have to hide behind private profiles and fake pictures and blocked comments and blah blah blah!!!! I have haters on here like the rest of you all but I DONT HIDE!!! This is the difference between real and fake! WORD

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:09 PM

What happened??

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:11 PM

everyone just loves me.....when they try to fight it is when problems occur

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:26 PM

It will be okay, promise HUGS...

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:27 PM

oh this I know dear....I just dont understand some people....I think a lot of people have way to much time on their hands and need a hobby or something....poor things I kind of feel sorry for them

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:41 PM

What do you mean they need a hobby? They do...called being busy bodies. Our way or no way. What OUR ideas are are gold! Posted a comment the other day pure and simple and had someone totally rip into it. I was like how can you get what you did as to what I posted? The comment?

How do you know that the person having the baby is what they needed to get motivated into what they need to do to change their life?

Agree with you 100%

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Nov. 23, 2010 at 11:46 PM

I really just do not get it...people can pull a whole drama fest out of thin air...I dont understand why people actually want to waist their time doing that....

The only thing I can think of is some may be "attention seekers" maybe they are deprived attention at home so they have to seek it online.....

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Nov. 24, 2010 at 12:30 AM

I hear ya, honey....                        


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Nov. 24, 2010 at 12:35 AM

Thank you sissy! I understand this is the internet....like a friend said we have to be leary about what we do and say on here but does this give people the right to take advantage of others feelings? Why join a social network if you want trouble or you do not want to really make a friend.

I consider myself a friend and a truthful individual and I try to live by that....not saying I have always been this way..by all means I have my bitch moments to :-)

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Nov. 24, 2010 at 7:29 AM

I've been on CM since the beginning (off and on) and although the moms have changed, the drama is still the same.  It reminds me a little of high school.. they're clique-y, they gossip, they try to one-up each other..

By the way, cafemommers is hilarious to say out loud.  Or maybe it's just early and I'm a still half asleep..

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