every time i get my head straight and leave men along another guy comes back in my life. i dumped my fwb/bf 2 weeks ago ..than on sat my ex that im still in love wth Callas me up and tell me he he loves me and the kids and wont's to be wt us and all that .. now i,m like ok..i love u and wont to be wth u to.. well i haven't talk to him sense sat.. i send him picks ( he asked  for ..not xx just me and kids ) and tex him to say happy thanksgiving .. no reply ..i,m like OK..i,ll give him time..he has a week..than i,m going to give up.. idk what to do now..confused

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Nov. 24, 2010 at 1:23 PM

sounds like he is creepin'.  no calling back, texting etc.... uhmmmm....... yep.... love him or not, i'd let him go sweetie.... YOU & the kids deserve BETTER.   good luck.

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Nov. 24, 2010 at 1:27 PM

Take a step back.  Write up a list of pros and cons of being with this guy, including this lack of contact thing. If the cons list is longer than the pros, then you need to decide if it is really worth the effort.

You have kids too, so it is very important that you consider them too.  Having men jumping in and out of their lives is just as bad for them as it is for you.  They will grow up thinking that it is they way things are done (it is a cycle).  Besides, if men are coming into their lives that they form a bond with, it is hard for them when that man then walks away again - kids just don't understand it.


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