Well my husband and I have been fighting a lot lately and i have no clue why. On
Tuesday night we fighting cause I am paying my loan that i had gotten out when i was 18 and now I'm 21 but my mom was paying on it but I told I would start paying it so I can pay it all off and just leave it alone. So he was really pissed off about that and I got really upset and emotional so I told him to leave me and ever since then we have been arguing. Then last night we shopping and the light was green still and it felt he was stopping so I asked him what he was doing why are you stopping. Then he looked at me and told to shut the ef up and be quiet. He never use to talk to me like so I feel like I'm doing something wrong and he don't want to be with me anymore. And we are married so I have been thinking that he is going to ask for a divorce and I'm scared cause we have a kid together already and another one on the way. I just been wanting to leave and stay somewhere and bring my baby with so we can get away from eachother for a while. But I have been thinking good thoughts but the way we have arguing I just can think of the bad things of course.

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Nov. 27, 2010 at 11:03 PM

Maybe hes worried about money.You know, with Christmas,a child,wife,another baby on the way. Maybe talk to your mom to see if you can start paying after the new year .just a idea. Hope things get better

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Nov. 27, 2010 at 11:06 PM Maybe its best if you two sit down and talk. It's best to know what going on with the both of you. Maybe you can come up with a solution once everything gets out in the open. Best of luck.

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Nov. 28, 2010 at 12:31 AM

thanks you guys ill talk to him

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