I could really use some hugs right now.I am so depressed.We are losing our house.They were supposed to start the paperwork last week.I have no idea where we are going.My kids will have to go to the childrens home.I will not take them to a shelter.My dh gets ssi but has to refile for disability.I have many issues and cannot work.I tried for ssi but was denied.I am so angry at ourselves and so sad and just cant deal with this.We just got served papers 15 mins ago to go to court b/c we are being sued by a credit card company b/c we owe $5,000.My kids are embarrassed by our family and our house.It needs a lot of work but I guess we wont have to worry about that.I just feel like my life is ending.Like everything is falling apart.I have a problem with depression so its nothing new to me.My meds help a little.Ever feel like you are losing everything???? My friends dont know what all is going on.I put on a front like I am happy.I am so far from it.I just want to curl up in a ball and cry.Please dont tell me it will be ok.I dont see how it could be.Do not tell me to believe in God.I have and it hasnt helped.I just want someone to hug me and let me cry on their shoulder.

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Chele...
Nov. 29, 2010 at 7:15 PM

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momof...
Nov. 29, 2010 at 7:18 PM

hugs

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daye62
Nov. 29, 2010 at 7:53 PM

I wish I was there to give you a hug and let you cry.I am in NJ;if you are nearby message me and maybe we can figure something out.I will believe in a happy ending for you until you can believe it yourself.

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Chica...
Nov. 29, 2010 at 8:34 PM

The situation looks tough and I feel for you. Do you have family?  It sounds like you have friends and maybe it's time, it's time to let them in sweetie... I have alot of pride too but it's not about that right but more about letting the people who care about in to help you.

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Ginge...
Nov. 29, 2010 at 9:28 PM

Worst thing you can do is hold it all in.Let your friends know.Maybe one of them can help,but they can't if they don't know.

I've been in really bad situations too,and believe me,everything has a way of working out somehow.They just usually don't work out as quickly as we'd like,but they do work out.

Good luck to you and your family.

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momof...
Nov. 30, 2010 at 11:50 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you.

im sorry

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08mpayne
Nov. 30, 2010 at 12:40 PM

Have you tried agencies like Lutheran Social Services for mortgage help?  What about modifymyloan.com?  Even if you have to leave your house eventually you can ask for court mediation and attempt to come up with a mutually satisfying (meaning you and the bank) arrangement.  At the very least you should have roughly 6 months to try to get some things in order.  Also, some of the mortgage companies, Chase and the bigger ones, are being looked at for fraudulent foreclosures.  I would call the Legal Aid society or a nearby law school and ask for help.

Keep smiling for yourself and your kids-they will need you to be strong right now.  Keep in mind that where God guides He provides.  You will get through this and come out into sunshine!

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brian...
Nov. 30, 2010 at 5:31 PM

I feel bad hope all goes better soon. so sad

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goatmom4
Nov. 30, 2010 at 5:40 PM

prayers

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koolm...
Nov. 30, 2010 at 5:50 PM

contact a bankruptcy attorney, they can help with morgage and credit card debt. Soryy you are going thru such a rough time.

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