I am freaked out completely...

I haven't had a cycle since August. I had my tubes tied in Aug-08. I took a couple of tests just to make sure. both were negative. I took them in September and October. (I don't feel pregnant but i have gained about 10-15lbs since July, and i am exhausted.)

I am going to the doctor on Friday for some blood work just to rule out some things. i guess? I hate going to the doctor. you go in for one thing and it is always something else they end up treating you for.

My fear is that...

1 i am peri-menopausal due to my tubal ligation. or

2 i am in fact pregnant with baby #4 and have messed this kid up by drinking and smoking cigarettes. or

3 i have some form of uterine cancer and i am going to die, leaving my DH and kids behind. or

4 The doc is going to tell me that they can't find anything wrong with me and it is all in my head.

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Nov. 30, 2010 at 12:01 AM

Hi this is peg860 go to the doctor, in 2008 I was 40 years old and I started having dizziness and sweating, and frequent bathroom trips I thought I was going thru menopause, because I had my tubes clipped and burned 17 years ago, When i took a blood test, because the pregnacy test came back negative I was 5 months pregnant I was in total shock, but when I went back to the doctor a year later after I lost my baby they told me and my husband, we could never get pregnant again, just this october we were pregnant again with another lost so please go and check yourself out.

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Nov. 30, 2010 at 12:55 AM

This happened to me all I had was a thyroid condition and it still happens here and there when my thyroid levels are off all I need is my thyroid medicine and I am good to go, one would never think you would be so happy to have your period. It takes a few weeks for your body to adjust to the medicine.

Maybe this is all it is. Good luck!

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