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Real Friends?
- Dec 4, 2010 at 9:15 PM
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I'm starting to think that in my case... they're like unicorns. Myths... fantasies. Something you're always searching for, but never really find.
There have been people I've cared for. I've tried to be a good friend to them. I've been generous, supportive, loving... all the things I would LOVE to have myself.
But I guess I'm not the kind of person who inspires those things in others. I give but I don't get. I love, but I'm not loved.
And it's killing me.
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I think it's kind of like finding the right guy. You look too hard and you find all the wrong ones. My very best friends kinda came out of nowhere, right when i wasn't expecting them! :)
I found that as soon as I got pregnant with my daughter, you really find out who your true friends are. From highschool ive got 4 friends left and only 2 best friends that know more about me then i do myself
My hubs in the military so we move a lot! I'm used to easily being able to make friends but when I first arrived to PA I thought I wasn't ever going to meet anyone! It was so hard and I spent the last three years being sad that I hadn't made any friends. The last year I looked at my hubby and said "oh well, guess I'll have better luck next time." That following months I have been overwhelmed with new friendships. When I no longer cared to make friends I made several wonderful friends that I hate to leave in two mos.
I often feel the same way. I am starting to think it is all an illusion. When we see all these people that have these great friendships, it is mostly B.S. Perhaps intelligent women are scary? I love coming online to find friends. I feel closer to some people here than most people I know IRL.
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Wow.. I could have totally wrote this myself.
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