So since finding out I am expecting again, my family has been starting even more drama.  Just because my mom succeeded in getting people to blindly believe her lies, she managed to get custody of my boys.  Now all of my main family is trying to work against me in the same way.  They are willing to tell her every detail of my life right now.

I hadn't done anything wrong in the first place, but now I really know that I haven't done anything.  My old social worker even knows and isn't opening a case.  My past is just that- My PAST!!  Just because I couldn't win against her once doesn't mean it's going to happen again right? 

Any advice is welcome, otherwise I think I just needed to vent!

Add A Comment


Dec. 12, 2010 at 12:54 AM

No advice...just Good Luck!

Message Friend Invite

Dec. 12, 2010 at 1:12 AM

I hate that your family doesn't support you. Lies are a bitch especially if they are not true.   You will have to prove to the courts that you are table and can take care of the kids.... so whatever lies were used or your past that didn't allow you to have the kids, I would make sure to document the good you have done to better yourself or is it that this "baby" you carry now the worry of her getting this one too??/   good luck to you 

Message Friend Invite

Dec. 14, 2010 at 8:07 PM

kkbird- I am pregnant right now.  I hate that they don't want to support me either (emotionally), but having my own mother lie just to get custody of my boys has sucked.  She knows she lied, she has tripped herself up in many ways that I have found out.  I didn't get my rights terminated, so I don't have to worry about that right now.  It's just all become too much drama!!

Message Friend Invite (Original Poster)

Want to leave a comment and join the discussion?

Sign up for CafeMom!

Already a member? Click here to log in