I'm just so pissed right now I'm ready to scream. So tried of all his shit. No cause of him now I can't some mommy time alone cause he won't watch his sick kid but I had to take care of him and them sick while being sick but why should I ever get a chance to get away for awhile. It is not allowed it seems so what if I have done everything for everyone the best I can I'm not ever allowed to have me time other than when the kids are in bed and than I can't go anywhere or stay up long cause I have to be up with them first thing in the morning. O sometimes no all the time it seems like im a single parent all he does is work than come home play games goes to bed and than gets up and goes to work spends little if anytime with me or the kids.

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Dawn0...
Dec. 28, 2010 at 11:21 AM

What about the grandparents?   Have them stay the night one night that way you can get out.  My husband was the same way when our daughter was born so I asked my mom to watch them for a few hours so I could get away.

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Dawn0...
Dec. 28, 2010 at 11:24 AM

I know its hard but husbands think we are super women who can do everything...you should talk with him about it. Try not yelling and getting upset just sit down and have a quite moment to where you can discuss your problems.  Let him know how run down you are.  You two probably need to take a break and spend some bonding time together so that you both know you still care about each other. Hope this helps. :)

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vmznt
Dec. 28, 2010 at 3:50 PM

Thanks yea tried grandparents but they work all the time and the others dont live in state. I have tried to talk to him about it too and we had a talk about me geting some time alone and things and he always says he will than last min he will change his mind. He knows im under alot of stress with kids health issues acting up again and getting new things and things. He just dont seem to care. Rather play his game got upset with me for take the kids to spend there christmas money today cause I was gone to long and he wanted lunch. So im just so furstrated.

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MamaA...
Dec. 28, 2010 at 4:34 PM

What  would happen if you just left for a few hours, no warning, no excuses-just left?

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vmznt
Dec. 28, 2010 at 7:47 PM

Hmm kids wouldnt eat most likely be in there rooms and the youngest would proabley be in a wet or poop pull up or both or who knows. Or the house destored all he does is play games on the computer all day so who knows and than he throws a fit.

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