My family is seriously the most immature people I know. My sister is 17, and due any day. Her boyfriends family knows he is having problem but yet they insist on causing drama. They call and tell her Cory,(her boyfriend) is cheating on her with his ex. Well the shit hit the fan. My family thinks that they now have to buy everything so they start telling her if she wants things for her baby then she needs to stay away from him. Wow all of that is "HELPING" the situation. So everyone is fighting and arguing over who can be at the hospital. My poor sister is confused and very hurt. Nobody seems to care about what she is gong through. I am trying to be there for her but it is hard. I have been through all of this and learned but she is not where I am right now. She is still learning.


My mother of course is being so helpful NOT! She is trying to hold baby items over my sister's head if she talks to her ex boyfriend. He is the father of the baby! Hello people! She will be 18 in six months! What does controlling her do? This is her child. She needs to learn to grow up and make good decisions for her daughter. I had to learn it and so will she. My sister is not sure what to believe or what to do. She is damned if she does and if she doesn't. If the child is in danger then people should jump in. But everyone is being really stupid and not considering the child at all. They are using her as a pawn in a chess game.The child deserves to know both sides of the family. The child also needs things and BOTH sides need to be held responsible for these things. His parents and my sister's Not only that but my sister and her boyfriend need to buy things with the money they have. 


Why can't we all get along for the sake of Raelyn? I love my sister and I am here for her no matter what she chooses to do. She can count on me. I am not sure these other people really love her. They all love drama. Drama is much more important than the baby! I am so sick of this already! I predict my sister will have her baby early due to all this stress!

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Jan. 26, 2011 at 12:31 PM


I am sorry your sister has to dealwith all of this and sorry you are stuck in the middle.

Keep your head up and keep being there for your sister,she needs someone right now and with all the family drama, you are definitely it!! Good Luck!

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