I have a DD that will be three in June. DH and I decided that I needed to get a job so that we could buy a house. So my SIL volunteered to babysit free of charge. She will be 22 in July. I have been noticing lately that when I come home it is very hot in my house, so I check the thermostat and realize that it was been turned up from 72 to 76. The first time I thought it was my daughter, she has recently learned that by moving her little chair around the house she can reach things, usually light switches. I come home again today and find it on 76 and I think WTF she can't always get it on 76 right? So apparently my SIL has been taking it upon herself to adjust it cause she likes to run around in shorts and tank tops(even though I told her last week that I thought Lily may have been messing with it and to please make sure she leaves it alone, and she said ok I will like nothing was going on!). I come home today and ask SIL if she gave Lillian a bath and she says yes but she didn't let me do her hair. So I ask what do you mean. And she says well she let the water out and got out. In my head I am thinking WTF ur the adult why didn't u just stop her, but I say ok we will give her one tonight before bed. I get on Facebook to check my messages and stuff and I see SIL status and this is what it says" Lillian is in bath finally, have to go check on her". I think OMG she left my 2 year old in the tub alone?!? DH thinks I am over reacting but I don't care. I am gonna call work tomorrow and see about getting a shift opposite my husbands shift so that one of us can be with my daughter because I know longer feel safe leaving her with my SIL. In my head I keep thinking, if she thinks its ok to do that what else is going on when we aren't around and she is babysitting?
Would you feel this way?