Wow! It's been forever since I've been here!

[BrendaMomOf3]

I've been so busy, I sorta, kinda forgot about CafeMom! I know I am bad!
There's been so much happening since forever ago when I was here.

Hmmm, where to start? My oldest son turned 18 last year....will be 19 in a few months. He hooked up with a girl that none of us liked. That relationship didn't last last too long but she ended up pregnant and now I am a grandma at 37. This whole situation is full of drama! The girl thinks I am worst piece of crap that has walked on the face of the earth. Not sure what her problem is with me.....she did say I am too close to my kids and she hated that my 18 year old still lsitens to his mother. So the past year and a half has been hell with her in this family. They broke up a month before the baby came and now she uses the baby as a tool. My son is NOT allowed to spend time with his daughter without the girl around. I am not allowed to see my granddaughter....because the mom is just a B**** like that!! She tries to control every move my son makes. I've tried putting the  past in the past and swallowed my pride for my granddaughters sake but the mom keeps on and on and on!! I'm really not a bad person! She is making the baby miss out on so much love from me, my husband and 2 younger boys....not countng the many other family members who would spoil her rottin!! The mom is very controlling and wants everything HER way in every situation! I am tired of peole saying "you have to consider her age"....because she is 17 (18 next month). I was a mom at 18 and I didn't treat people like s***. I would of never kept my son from a family that loved him!! I shared my son with everyone. Even my son is limited to when he can see his daughter. It has to be on HER terms! Unfortunately it costs $300 to file papers with the court for him to take it in front of a judge. But we're working on it!
I'd of never dreamed that my first grandchild would be so messed up. I love her so much and want to be a part of her life. It's been miserable!
 Why can't us mothers just pick who we want our kids to have babies with? LOL

On a lighter note, the other 2 boys are growing too damn fast!! Devon is now 14 and Breydon is 11. Devon is in middle school (8th grade) and is involved with football, basketball, and baseball at school. He's doing great in school and is an all around good youngin. He's got his first "serious" girlfriend....however much serious can be at 14. LOL Breydon is now 11 and in 5th grade. He is getting so big. My "baby" is no longer a baby. He is becoming his own little person. He is doing great in school and just a happy youngin.
They're both still involved in 4H and doing great. They're still showing animals and are now on the shooting teams. Breydon just won an archery competition yesterday. He also shoots shotguns and Devon shoots .22 rifle. After going through hell with my oldest one this past year, I want these 2 to stay at the age they are now and never grow up!

As for me, I am still making designs and sayings for my Zazzle and Cafe Press Stores.  That really helps for me to keep my sanity! I don't do too much photography anymore. I got tired of people not paying for prints and stealing them off Facebook! I do however just do random photography- what I want when I want!! I mainly use it for my greeting cards.....which brings me money!

Well, that's about it for now. Sorry to bore you all!!