Off and on for the past few days I've had plenty of time to think about the What If's with this pregnancy. I have read good stuff, and bad stuff, hopeful articles and scary articles. One thing that could be a possibility this could be an ectopic pregnancy. To top it all off, a fellow surrogate just experienced an ectopic pregnancy and came from the hospital today after 36 hours and surgery!  If I worry enough, can I start to manifest symptoms and scare myself silly?  

I'm trying my best to think good, happy, positive pregnancy thoughts and talking to this baby and telling them they need to grow big and strong in there.  I don't think I'm living in a state of denial. I'd rather look at it as the power of positive thinking!

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Apr. 1, 2011 at 1:40 AM

The first trimester is hell on the psyche for normal women it is so much worse for you.  I know it is impossible but try not to think about it.  You have a US soon, and if there is pain and bleeding go sooner.  Try to busy yourself it will help.  If you need time out again also let me know 

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