ok so my husband and i separated for a year and a half( we've been  back together for a year now) and during that year and a half i met what i thought was a great guy but he wasnt even close to be a nice guy. he beat and raped me for a year and forced me to have a baby. well the day i left he almost killed me in a car wreck. i was going 80 miles an hour down a highway when he jerked the wheel out of my hand causing the car to spin out of control and it started to tip like it was going to roll across the high way just as i got enough control of the car to lland backwards in a ditch. well i pressed charges on him for everything and even tried to get a restraining order but the judge denied everything. he doesnt know that i moved to virginia with his son. the other day i got an email from some one i didnt know the subject said just for you and not thinking about it i opened it, to my surprise it was a picture of me and my ex(the one who abused me) and it said i hope you like it. well i changed my email because i forgot my password. so i started freaking out because i mean if he can find my email then he can find where im at. should i be worried?

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Lb128f
Apr. 1, 2011 at 9:42 AM

I would definitely be concerned. And...I'd keep everything (anything) like the email as evidence he is trying to contact you. You might need it. I hope you have full custody...that way you don't have to worry about legal issues in taking your child out of state. Good Luck! Be careful!!

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Melis...
Apr. 1, 2011 at 12:42 PM

i am. under mississippi law he is not the father of my son my husband is because we were married when he was born but my exs name is on the birth certificate. and because he is that establishes him as the father so i have to take him to court to get his parental rights stripped so my husband can adopt my son and put his name on the birth certificate. we plan on doing that when we get astablished as virginia residents. my ex is on probation and can not leave state so im hoping i will win by default and it all be done and over with. but im not crossing my fingers not after all the shit the judge in mississippi through out. his family is constantly trying to get in contact with me. i loved his family they were sweet people but him he was a monster. he got my kids taken away from me for almost a year. i didnt get to see my son till he was 9 months old. they took him right after he was born.

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Chica...
Apr. 1, 2011 at 3:30 PM That is weired so does he have any access to bill or bank accounts or stuff like that? Also there are websites where you can get info on people as to where they live and even see their house. Do a search on google for your name to make sure you don't find anything. Also, make sure he isn't contacting any of your relatives or spying on their mail, texts or any other form of communication that you may have disclosed your location. Does he have your social because if he does, he could get a credit report which would list any addresses you have used to apply for credit. Never underestimate crazy people!

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Melis...
Apr. 1, 2011 at 3:45 PM

no he doesnt have any accesss to my bank account. my family doesnt talk to them they hate him. and no he doesnt have my social or anything like that. i hope there is nothing under google. im going to have to do that and see.

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Melis...
Apr. 1, 2011 at 3:47 PM

i googled my name and there are thousands of people named melissa davis so i dont think he would be able to find that way. my facebook is set to private you cant even do a search on facebook for mine. my neice couldnt find me because my profile doesnt show up under the search

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