I'm a stay at home mom with three wonderful children. I spend my days taking one to and from school, cleaning, cooking, laundry, playing with the other two, taking care of the dogs, ect. My husband lost his job through Christmas holiday and finally found one in Feb. NOt sure how we made it but we did thank goodness. We have talked and talked about moving to AL on and off for a few years now but some how my husband always talks me out of it or something gets messed up to where we just can do it at the time. I still would like to move but most of his family is here and I think he is scared to move away from them but won't admit it. I moved from my family 7 years ago. My dad lives close by but we don't see each other very often cause of our schedules. If we were to move to AL we would have to look for jobs again but the rent if very cheap everywhere down there. I think money wise it would be for the best of us we would be able to make the same amount but spend less on bills which would help a lot. We would also get to live in the country and be by some if his family that lives out there that we get along with more. I see more pros for moving and more cons for staying. It would be hard at first I know looking for new jobs and getting new dr for the kids and new school and all but they know and love the family out there too. They will help us also. I just don't know if I should ask him again if he want to move again. I don't like making him mad but I want to do whats best for us.

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Apr. 1, 2011 at 11:57 AM

Good Luck! Why don't you list the Pro's and Con's so you all have something to "go by" when talking about it?

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Apr. 1, 2011 at 4:22 PM

Sounds like a plan....going to make a pros and cons list on here tomorrow sometime to get opinions from others too.

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