I came home from school early the other night and caught my 15yr old daughter in her room with a boy. She was completely unclothed. With the guidance of her aunt, I talked  to her about this and learned that she is on birth control and this is her second sexual experience with the same boy. She has been a good student with good grades and a mature and responsible teen and has been regressing in these areas lately. I feel that this may be related to her relationship with this boy, who by the way got kicked out of school and she doesn't know why he got kicked out, but she trusts him........I don't know what to do or how to punish her. PLEASE HELP!

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Apr. 2, 2011 at 10:17 PM

I've been caught before. My mom was furious, and tried to keep from the guy I was seeing. But it did not work. Punishment can lead to a rebellious daughter, and if this guy means a lot to her, she will find some way to see him. I would accept her feelings for him and allow them to see each other, I know there are sites out there about teen moms. Show them to her. That way she can hear from a teen-mom what they go through. I was a teen mom, I rebelled against my mom though she was only trying to protect me. Since I was 16 it's been about my son. And I love him dearly..

I would be understanding..

Just my opinion...

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Apr. 3, 2011 at 4:40 PM

I wouldn't punish her. Nor would I keep her from him. Just as the PP said your not going to be able to protect her 24/7. Best you can do is educate her on the risks she is taking.

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