I posted this in one of my groups and the admin deleted it saying I can't make comments about other users etc. WTH? I was complaining about a thing not a person and it wasn't even from the group I posted it in.

I was just saying that it's irritating to get these messages in my inbox. I have a very busy RL!!! Sorry I'm not a "platinum, 7 carat diamond, my ass smells like flower member". (this particular part was not in my original post but,they felt they had to delete it for no reason so I'm using sarcasm to show my irritation)

ANYWAY ~ I get around to logging into CM about once a week sometimes more sometimes less. I like it here but I have other priorities and responsibilities. And just because I log in once a week doesn't mean that I'm going to be on a mission to visit each of my groups. So ridiculous if you ask me. 

[Steps down from soap box]

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Apr. 4, 2011 at 5:16 PM

Groups don't have a setting for deleting once a week. Its either every 30, 60, 90, or 180 days. Personally my group is set to 180. And out of that time if you don't have a moment to look into the group then your not really interseted or have time for CM. This setting helps keep down the number of members because what I hate most is joining a group with a huge members list but maybe 20 actually post.

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Apr. 4, 2011 at 5:57 PM

Yeah SalemWitch if I hadn't visited a group in 6 months I could see getting that message. Hell, if it had been that long they could just delete me and I would never know! LOL

These groups must be set to 30 days that I get them from. I can see your point for wanting an active group.

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