Oh at least i htought she was my friend.  Should have picked someone else to be in my wedding.  She had the nerve to post something on my facebook wall almost giving away the pregnancy! Are you freaking kidding me???  i haven't told anyone in my family, the last thing i need is them broadcasting it on facebook.  Once my sister found out I was pregnant she had to get knocked up too. the day of my baby shower, she announces to my mom that she is pregnant again.  so instead of my mom focusing on my shower, my mom insisted on telling everyone that her other daughter was pregnant.  my mom was suppose to come stay with me for a week after the baby was born, instead she went to my sisters town at the time to help her pack for the move back with my mom which she shouldve started packing months ago.  I got to spend like 2 hours if that with my mom who lives half way across the country.  and then this so called friend almost blows the pregancy.  the pregnancy i didn't want anyone in my family to know about for a while.  I'm having a hard time accepting this pregnancy and then she goes and acts like that.

i sent her a nice email telling her not to be disrespectful by posting stuff like that on my wall and blocked her.

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Apr. 9, 2011 at 3:10 PM

sounds like my family. my sister got all the attention when she was pregnant. i was pregnant first but my dad wouldn't come to the hospital. he said it was because he lived in another state. he lived in that same state when my nephew was born but he went to the hospital for my sister. my sister was angry at me because i got pregnant first. so she never told me she was pregnant. i found out through facebook. sorry your friend treated you that way. 

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Apr. 9, 2011 at 10:11 PM

Seems like you overreacted just a tad. Did you tell her that you didn't want anyone else knowing? It's not her fault your family treats you that way.

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Apr. 9, 2011 at 10:54 PM

Yeah she knows everything about me.  She was one of my bridesmaids at my wedding and my family did everything they could and did ruin my wedding and try to make it about them. And she knows i don't tell alot of ppl till my second trimester. so now im not over reacting.  Im just done trying to handle her moods.  she tends to act like this, and has hurt me a lot over the last 4 months im just giving up

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