In our house, there is 3 adults and 1 child. I am the only one who doesn't work because I am unable to do to my pregnancy. I am the only one who cooks, cleans, does laundry. my mother in law doesn't like the way I clean or do dishes. My husband doesn't help and neither does she. I don't expect her to help cause she works two job and usually works 6 or 7 days a week. my husband works 5 days a week and is off on the weekend. He prefers to play on his playstation 3 then help me do any housework. All he does is take out the trash. He wonders why I am always tired. I am cleaning up after 4 people, 2 dogs, doing laundry, cook supper, doing dishes, making sure my 4 year old behaves and making sure he gets his bath and in bed on time. Not to mention that my son has speech 3 days a week. The only thing I do for myself is a group at my church for women. that is 1 hour a week. My husband doesn't like the fact that I go to this group. It is one hour a week. I haven't felt appreciated in almost 4 months so I no longer feel like having sex. I am also tired as hell and don't get alot of sleep.  My husband gets upset cause I don't want to have sex. Well if i felt appreciated and got a little help around the house then I might feel like having sex once in awhile.  I have asked him for help but it doesn't help. I feel like moving out and see if he would appreciate me then.

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