Seriously having problems with my 14 year old son, he hates me and wants nothing to do with me has been kicked out of school twice now, I have no Idea what to do with him.  I can't  talk to him, when ever I try it turns in to a big fight.  Never had these problems with my daughter.  Someone please HELP!!!

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Ruthm...
Apr. 12, 2011 at 10:19 PM

Take it to the Lord in prayer...He knows and cares far more than you know. He'll help you find the way to handle this with your son. Usually kids go through these stages. They don't usually last long. I know it is devastating at the moment, but it will pass. Be loving but consistent with him. He needs a parent who will "stick to her guns". He'll respect you for it in the long run and your relationship will flourish.

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Carol...
Apr. 12, 2011 at 10:38 PM

stick to ur guns! ur doing the right thing!!!! my parents let my lil bro walk all over them! he wrecked my moms car at 15, got arrest of possion of pot at 16, dropped out of school at 17, totaled his car at 18! oh and he doesnt have a job and he still lives with my parents! which my parents are now in the middle of a divorce because of him and all the crap he has done! not punishing him would b the wrong thing to do! sure he may hate u now but he will thank you later in life! *hugs*

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