I have been looking for a job here, and had a interview today was given a skill test for the job and failed it. Flat out I refuse to lie about what i would do in situations as I have me to wake up to in the a.m. Dh unemployment runs out in 7 weeks and not sure if his civilian job will call him back before it runs out. Dh keeps saying that his job will call him back, but why in the hell is he not looking for a job now? From what I understand his first marriage ended because he refused to work.. Though I am not one to believe the rumors, more and more I am seeing this to be true. Another thing him and his son are fucking slobs.. I am the one who makes sure that the house is cleaned, the meals are cooked and the bills are payed with what money we do have. I might be wrong here, but I wish his guard unit would deploy him again... Atleast I would know that we would have a steady income.. I am willing to work, but why the hell should I have to support someone who refuses to even look.

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Apr. 14, 2011 at 9:27 PM I'm in the same boat. He probably doesn't want to get or look for a job because he is relying on his civilian job to call him back.

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Apr. 15, 2011 at 12:55 AM

I'm sorry about the job...but, I agree...you shouldn't have to change what you'd really do in a situation to "fit" so...don't sweat it...something else will come up!! I hope DH's job does call him back...but, he should be looking still. I'm sorry he isn't. It sounds like something needs to be done "overall" with him and his child not helping around the house. I hope you all can figure that out! Good Luck!!!

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May. 11, 2011 at 8:29 AM


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