Im getting very pissed off wtih my daughters father. its been almost 6 months since he has last seen her. he never calls to see how she is and has never once supported her. i keep wondering where did i go wrong and why does he think he can just walk away from her. on top of that my daughter is sick and i still havnt had time to study for my GED and going nuts staying in this house everyday. dont get me wrong now i love my daughter to death but i need a break and really want to go back to work but she needs me since her dad is a deadbeat. i just dont no what to do anymore.    frustrated

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 2:29 AM

I'm sorry. I'll never understand how a parent can turn their back on their own child...but, sadly it happens all the time, you know? I don't think there is anything you can do to "make" him be a better the long run your DD and her Dad will both lose out if he doesn't start "being" a Dad. I hope he will. In the about a friend, family member or neighbor to help you out? I hope you can find someone who will offer to help you so you can get some time to yourself...that's really important (no matter how much you love your children). I hope your DD is feeling better soon!! And, GOOD LUCK on your GED!!!

BTW: When you say he hasn't "supported" you mean with Child Support? If so, you can file with your local CS Office and they will take the CS money out of his paycheck. And, if he isn't working or "can't" be can file for Welfare and will receive some money to help out (he will have to pay them back when they do locate him). Additionally, if you need the help you can file for Food Stamps and WIC. Good Luck!

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