me and my husband have been together for almost 8 years and married 3 of the 8 and i never seem to do anything right. i feel so unattractive when we got together i weighed 85lbs and after our daughter and son and the 3rd on the way i weigh 149 lbs and i cant get his attention for longer than to seconds just like tonight i was in the mood he came over to me acted like he was in the mood then its like he thought about it then he didnt want to do anything and then he ask me whats wrong when i get upset well we went from have sex several times a week to maybe once a week and that is if he is in the mood. i could walk around the room completly naked and he not even move and i am suppose to not get upset well what else am i suppose to feel i am up almost everynight all night and the one time the kids r sleeping he doesnt even want to think about having sex it has been like this since our daughter was born its like i put on a few pounds after her and i am to fat to touch and the only way that i can really get his attention is mention going down on each other and that upsets me bc then that dont always work

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Apr. 15, 2011 at 8:06 AM

149 isn't fat hon... and mabey he's stressed out from work or something...?

Trust me, walk around naked a few times and he'll bite. Men don't care about fat as much as we think they do.

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Apr. 15, 2011 at 9:56 AM

Maybe you should talk to HIM!? Ask him what's wrong...but, truthfully, like the PP said...maybe it has nothing to do with you!

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