So my fiance and i have a little 9 month old girl, and he seems to think that on our days off, i'm the one who has to clean and do everything in the house, including take care of our baby, while he sits around. he doesn't think he should have to take care of the baby when it's his day off, but it's okay for me to do everything. we both work 40+ hours, and get the same amount of sleep. i feel as though it should be equal. he sits at home all day and does nothing, and then when i get home, tells me to "pick up a little". god i just wish he'd smarten up and realize how disrespectful it is, and how much it hurts to see him treat me like this. i don't know what to do :/.

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 7:41 PM

 Yes you do sit him down and tell him the truth. No one should be doing all of the work and you let him know it took two of us to make this wonderful child he needs to help. I would cut him off if he does not help. GL Momma

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