For the past year Tai (Jakes dad) and I have been doing a one week one week off. Totally on our own, no courts or anything. All was going pretty good I guess. 

He finally got another job, he has been unemployed for the past year. Since he got this new job he is now too busy to take Jake, oh and can't pay anything to help raise him either. I finally decided that I'm done with his games that I have had to deal with for the past year, all the empty threats and just him being an ass hole. So I marched my pretty little but down to DES and filed for help getting child support. I'm done playing his games!

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 1:09 PM

Sounds like you made a good decision =-) Me and my sons father have the same thing going on, and its worked so far..we dont ask each other for money unless its needed. but like your bd, he's been unemployed for a yr as well, so things will change when he gets a job, hopefully he's help out if its needed but we shall see, good luck btw, hope it doesnt get ugly for you =-)

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 1:43 PM

Thx MAMA. I hope it doesn't get ugly either. But he has been threatening me since day one that if I ever take him to court for child support he will try and never stop till he gets full custody... that was the biggest reason why i just never went for it. But I'm done with the threats. 

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Apr. 17, 2011 at 1:38 AM

Very good!!

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Apr. 21, 2011 at 8:19 AM

No need to worry about him getting custody hun! Arizona is a state that fully backs the momma unless he can prove you are unfit, which I'm sure he can't :)

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