Im so upset I had a miscarrage the other nite I was 10 weeks long. I started having brown discharge and then bleeding so dh took me to the ER. They did a utlrasound and said there was a sag there but nothing it. So they told me to go home and relax The next day was was so bad I was bleeding so much I went to get up and all of a sudden something came out it was the sag.I just droped to the floor in pain why is this happing so we went back they said I lost alot of blood gave me IV and some blood. We went home and now Im laying bed crying and praying to god why oh why I hurts so much. But I have to be strong for my three boys my oldest was upset about it and he cryed on my shoulder and just asked me why mom. I didnt know what to say because Im so sad and still weak from it all.Im still bleeding alot and in pain so It looks like Ill be going back to the ER.I do want to try again but Im so scared that it will happen again. I have to be here for my boys and I have to stay stronge even thought Im dying inside.

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 4:06 PM

I'm so sorry this happened. I know your pain . I had a miscarriage 3-1986 & I was 10 wks. & one 1-4-1997 at 9 wks. I always had to have a d& c or D & e.  The emotional pain is the worst. Big hugs to you

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 4:13 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.  I understand all too well the pain and grief of losing a child.  God has blessed me with two wonderful boys. Then in 2007 I gave birth to a daughter who was stillborn. In 2008 and 2009 I had miscarriages at around 8 weeks and one was 12 weeks.  In 2010 I gave birth to a healthy baby girl.  I told you this because I don't want you to every give up hope.  I know the pain your feeling and I want to say that in time it will ease.  It will never fully go away but you will find a way to move on.  There is still a ache in my heart for the lose of my babies and not a day goes by that I don't think of them , but with the support of my family and friends, and God I was able to move forward and God did eventually bless me with another beautiful healthy baby girl.  So when the time is right God will answer. If you ever need to talk I'm here for you.  Praying for you and your family.  Praying you are able to find strength and peace .

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 5:07 PM

Thank you ladies for the support I need it.When I was pregnant I always prayed to god for the baby to be health. Its so hard to feel my stomach and then realize there is nothing in there Im trying to be strong but Im just dying I dont want to eat Im so tired I just want to sleep all day I hope it gets better soon

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Apr. 16, 2011 at 10:40 PM

I'm sorry.

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Apr. 19, 2011 at 12:58 PM

im so sorry for your loss i also miscarried my 1st baby when i was 18 but i got pregnant with my daughter 4 months later.

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