Just sitting here, surfing, avoiding my SO. We got in a huge argument last week, 2 hours worth, and he asked me for a divorce because he isn't happy and not getting enough sex.  I almost laughed in his face. I want to blame everything on him but I know that some of the problems are caused by me as well. I offered up counseling and told him that he needs to quit drinking and become more involved in our lives. He just blamed everything on me as usual. It takes two to dance though right? So anyway feeling a little bummed at the moment. The last week has been so TENSE. Nothing more has been said, hell I don't even know if he remembers saying it becaue he was so drunk, but I remember...


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Apr. 18, 2011 at 12:01 AM

I guess that I should add that it is only stressful financially at the moment. Emotuionally I am totally ok with us being apart. It would be such a relief...

Anyway...love and light ladies.


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Apr. 18, 2011 at 12:29 AM

So sorry you are dealing with this situation, but I commend you on handling it so well. Good luck moving forward, hopefully he will give in to counseling, I do believe it can work if both parties want it to!

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Apr. 18, 2011 at 1:10 AM

I'm sorry...arguing always sucks. :( I hope you will go to counseling even if he won't...it could help you in figuring out what to do next. Good Luck!

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Apr. 25, 2011 at 11:34 AM

Thank you so much ladies! I appreciate your support!

Love and light!!!

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