Hi. I will start at the beginning. About a year ago.. I started dreaming about my 13 year old daughter being raped. I had this dream twice and it almost drove me nuts! I would not let her go anywhere or do anything other than with me.  Recently .. I have been dreaming and like having some sort of vision things that she is pregnant. At 13. I know that there is worse things out there but she is my daughter and it scares the snot out of me .. I dont know what I am dreaming such things and it really is tormenting me. If anyone can help me please do!! Thanks

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kimbe...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 11:32 AM

Maybe you subconsiously fear this for your daughter and its coming out in your dreams? I know dreams like that can be so super scary. If you feel it is a vision of the future rather than a dream from your subconcious, I say follow your gut instinct and keep a close eye on her.Talk with her.You may feel better and the dreams will get better or go away. Good Luck.p.s. I am in no way a dream expert,lol..so I'd still seek other advice.Again, Good Luck and best wishes.

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Lb128f
Apr. 18, 2011 at 1:57 PM

I agree with the PP....it's probably something you worry about a lot. I hope the dreams stop though...that's not something you want to dream about, I'm sure!

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smile...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 2:27 PM

I definetly think you should be concerned, i truly believe that  we have these dreams for a reason.  Im not sure if you could stop something like this but i think you should definetly talk to your little girl about the dangers of being in certain situations like hanging out with kids you don't know to well or hanging out at a friends house, etc.... Please keep that communication with your daughter let her know that you're there for her and if there's anything she needs to talk about she can talk to you. I think the biggest fear they have is that what they might want to say to us is too emberrasing or shameful so they rather keep it to themselves. If she's not telling you anything then i would keep an eye on where she goes, who she's with. Good luck mom- i pray that everything goes well.

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Anonymous
Apr. 18, 2011 at 5:16 PM

Thank you all very much. I too feel that open communication of very important .. we have talked and talked and I have told her and my other daughter of all these dreams .. I have told them things that they probably shouldnt even know about at their age but I believe in honesty. I have bought them both pepper spray and safety whistles .. not that they are away from me much to use them but they do have them .. I might be causing these things on myself because I do worry about it. We have talked about what would happen if they were to be pregnant ( for whatever reason) at a young age . We as a family dont believe in abortion so that would not be an option. I cant see me letting a grandbaby go .. no matter what the age. .I am 32 definately not ready to be a grandma but hey sometimes things happen. Its just a terrifying thought and I really am greatful for all your responses!! Thanks so much!!

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