Joe fell for it again. The stupid Ex agreed to lower child support payments since she started working and was taking soooo much from him(400 a week and thats for 1 child!) Yea so he makes good money but he also has our family to support and with almost half his paycheck going to her each week it gets rough. Anyway, She lowered it to 270 which was a great decrease. I told him, get it in writing before changing it over...but he didnt..and now 2 months later we get a notice saying we owe child support of 400 a week. Shes not going over the back pay but she jumped it right back up. Now its back to court we go to get it lowered back down will be less than 270 a week we just agreed to it to avoid lawyer fees and court cost, ya know..UGH Im so frustrated. I know he keeps the peace just to make things nice for Aaron but his Ex is the devil..she tries EVERYTHING to fuck him over. I hope this was a wake up call for him ....And just when we were starting to let her in our home and be civil to one another....Im beyond pissed

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Apr. 21, 2011 at 1:07 PM

Wow that is reallly rotten. What a bitch!!!!

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Apr. 22, 2011 at 4:22 AM Not to play dvils advocate here(since we too deal with an ex like that!) But if the chikd support was decided by a judge, then regardless of what she said it would STILL havbto be changed/lowered by a judge. So the letter may have cme from the dor not receiving they norm amount.

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Apr. 22, 2011 at 7:28 AM

DOR has never been involved as SO is always paying, never late or skipping payments. He spoke withthem yesterday, found out she in fact DID go to them and try to get support switched to payments from them, which makes it so Joe has to pay them instead of her directly. He also filled out ammendment/modification forms to take her back to court with so there will be no more of her messing things up. Shes seriously evil. Id love to smack some sense into her but out of love for Aaron I would never do that...

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