So, a person that I thought was my friend is getting married in June. We've been friends since high school and been through so much together over the years since then. Today I received the invite to her wedding , and the invite included the web address of their wedding site. I just assumed that she was having family only in her wedding, but I discovered that she asked another friend of ours to be in the wedding and didn't ask me. I'm very upset because I thought we were close friends. I don't know if I should ask her why she didn't ask me to be apart of her wedding or just leave it alone. I'm so upset to the point where I don't want to go to the wedding at all! I feel like I got stabbed in the back because she didn't even extend the offer to me. I really don't know what to do, but I don't know if I really have a right to be upset or if I'm overreacting. I would have never done that to her because I just wouldn't. I started crying because I'm really upset and shocked that she would do such a thing.

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Apr. 22, 2011 at 2:23 AM

I'm sorry...I can understand why you'd be upset. But, I'm sure she has her reasons...and if she wants you to know she will tell's probably a money issue and what she can afford to do. Maybe she has some histroy with the other person that you don't know about? I'd still go to the wedding...she is your friend even if she wasn't able to have you "in" her wedding -- she wants you there. IDK...maybe you should ask her and get it cleared up...but, don't take it personally...I'm sure there is a good reason why.

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