Ok SO I'm not Pregnant.

               In a way it breaks my heart because I was kind of hopeing to be. To feel a third little hand curl their fingers around my hands and to fill the house with more laughter and craziness then what's all ready going on. Heck the husband and I were all ready picking out names and having fun imagining how we were going to handle three kids when we go crazy with our all ready 5 and 1 year old. Also in a way though I'm glad to not be. My husbands and I financial statuses really arn't that great. We have a hard time as it to get diaper's for our little girl but we plan to try and potty train her after her birthday, we can't hardly keep gas in our vehicle to get ourselves to work or our son to school. So even though it was a heart break and a relief at the same time not to be pregnant right now.  We've desided that it wouldn't be good to bring the child into a family where we are all ready having trouble supporting two children. Even  though we do want more children we have desided that we would give it a couple of years and try to better our financial statuses and try and do a little better for the two that we have before we bring a third and fifth member into our all ready crazy and wild family.

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Apr. 29, 2011 at 6:09 PM

I know how you feel. A few months ago I was like three weeks late with every symptom of pregnant. It was not an ideal time, but after that long of wondering about it... it was a little disappointing when it was official that I was not. Life is too crazy right now with me working at home and having two kids and our house is WAY too small for a third kid. Our house is way too small for two kids! lol. So while I want more kids, it's just not feasible right now. I'd rather wait until we can move, dh is working again, I have a chance to take my work where I want it, and possibly have at least our oldest in school so I'm not trying to write over 3 screaming mouths. LOL. 

Hugs. It sucks when you want a baby and know it's best not to have one.

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May. 3, 2011 at 1:09 PM

I know the situation and It's good to hear that I wasn't the only one on this. With my crazy hours and my husbands it's hard to keep track of our two haha.

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